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Advanced Mediation Training with Robert Benjamin

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Resolve and Thrive: Advanced Tactics for Mediators (Guerrilla Mediation and More)

Presented by Robert Benjamin, February 20-21, 2009

Offered by the Center for Dispute Resolution at Missouri State University (Springfield MO)

The Center for Dispute Resolution is pleased to bring mediator, attorney, and author Robert Benjamin to Springfield, MO, for this advanced training session!

The seminar is designed for the advanced practitioner; however, the issues and topics are relevant for the novice as well. The thinking frame and applied theory draws from a variety of disciplines, including science, history, economics, art, and the theatre, and animal ethology, in addition to the more obvious frames of sociology and psychology. There will be an emphasis on practical practice strategies, techniques and skills, and examples and simulations will be taken from all dispute contexts, including, business and commercial, personal injury, family and divorce, health care, and workplace disputes.

For more information please review the training outline below, or read an overview of the training here. This event is sure to draw a large crowd, and early registration is recommended! The registration fee for this event after January 20 is $375. The event will be held at Missouri State University in Springfield, MO. Continuing education credits are available, including 2.5 hours of CLE ethics credits.

Friday, February 20, 2009 (8:30 a.m. - 5:30 p.m.)

The Activist Mediator: Styles and approaches to mediation and the role of the mediator

  • Can you be too neutral and too rational?
  • Why ‘Hawks’ win, and risk taking
  • The depth of the allure of conflict: lessons from evolutionary psychology and neuro-science.
  • Who is your client: the court, attorneys or parties?

Managing conflict: theory, techniques and skills

  • Rational, non-rational, and irrational: myth and reality
  • Lawyers’ and mediators’ responses to conflict
  • Controlling conflict: managing the natural energy of conflict
  • Neuro- linguistic techniques
  • The use of metaphors, reframing, and spinning
  • “Mediator, heal thyself” – Confronting our little biases, assumptions, and professional scripts

Negotiation rituals and strategies: Beyond the “interest/needs” model

  • Would John Wayne negotiate, and why we hate it.
  • Negotiation as ritual
  • Cultural, moral and psychological resistance to negotiation
  • Mapping the negotiation terrain: pragmatic, cooperative, competitive and moral: ‘The Protean Negotiator’
  • Asking the right questions at the right time: tricksters, ‘the wise fool,’ and other ‘crazy wisdom’ techniques
  • Persuasion: the limits of logic and paradoxical injunction
  • Gaining commitment—dealing with resistance to negotiation/mediation
  • Constructive deceptions, the art of the ‘bluff,’ and other tactics
  • The mediator as negotiation coach
  • Mediator authenticity, credibility, trust

Strategies for avoiding and managing impasse

  • Applied theory: Systems and field theory
  • Mediating with ideologues
  • Value conflicts
  • Mediator-induced impasse
  • Participant simulation work

Creative problem-solving

  • Escaping flatland and learning to think laterally
  • The beauty of conflict: jazz, visual arts
  • Mindfulness strategies
  • Mediation as theatre and negotiation as performance art: Improvisational theatre techniques
  • Forgiveness,   reconciliation, apology, and revenge in conflict management practice

Ethical and professional issues in negotiation

Saturday, February 21, 2009 (8:30 a.m. - 2:45 p.m.)

The politics of professional mediation practice

  • Professional legitimacy: Certification, licensure and approval
  • Mediation and the courts: the Uniform Mediation Act and the impact of other legislative/regulatory constraints
  • Professional rivalries: Law, counseling, and mediation
  • Professional vs. community mediation
  • Mediation as a free community service vs. a private pay for service
  • Restraint of trade and the unauthorized practice of law: Real or imagined

Marketing mediation

  • A message that connects: How people choose to purchase a product or service; “freakenomics” rule
  • The audience: Where do clients come from? (professionals or the public? lawyers, judges, clergy, counselors, real estate agents, AARP meetings, etc.)
  • The medium: Considering web sites, speaking engagements, brochures, newspapers, radio, TV
  • The value and limits of specialization in practice and marketing –New opportunities: Estate and probate, health care, workplace, eldercare

Economics of practice

  • Factors in setting and collecting fees; cancellation fees, sliding-fee scales,“free” services
  • Retainers (refundable/non-refundable)
  • Written agreements to mediate: Terms and a mediation clause
  • Office place and interior design
  • Mediator dress
  • Panel participation

Professional and ethical Issues in conflict management practice

  • Confidentiality
  • “Good faith’ participation
  • Ethical issues in collaborative law: The Colorado Bar Association
  • Working in the Shadow of the Law: Managing lawyers and legal systems
  • When program structures and ideology constrain professional practice
  • The ‘unauthorized practice of law’ or counseling

The Future of the Field

Register online now or download a registration form.